I had planned to post a review of BBC's Emma today (actually, more of a "na-na-na-na-na, I knew I'd like the Gwyneth Paltrow version better" taunt =), but, after reading an article on Visionary Daughters, had to pass it on before moving into more superficial subjects.
Once you see the title of the article, you might echo the same sentiments that a soft-core Twilight fan uttered to me the other day regarding the whirlwind success of New Moon ("Twilight is a superficial subject"). And, more than you know, you would be completely right.
I never could take the Twilight saga quite seriously --it's not the type of story that usually interests me. On the surface, it's simply the tale of impetuous young romance, a Romeo and Juliet story about a lonely teenage girl who falls for with the most popular guy in her school. At it's core, it could be the plot of just about any youth romance novel, replete with inspiring themes like love and sacrifice. It's an age-old story, really.
Except for, oh, that's right --Edward Cullen is a vampire.
I love how the Botkin sisters handled the subject of emotional pornography in their article, "How Twilight is Re-Vamping Romance." If you have heard anything about the novel (and, if like most of us, you've heard a lot about the novel), I would most definitely recommend taking a trip over to Visionary Daughters. Having done some in-depth research on the topic myself (it's what I do =), I had some thoughts of my own to share.
I have written about unattainable standards of perfection again and again, but I think the Cullen clan takes the cake; Mr. Knightley may be the consummate gentleman, but, after all, he's only human. "Devastatingly, inhumanly beautiful" as Stephenie Meyer describes the Cullen clan in her first novel, he is not. The best thing about this perfectly devastatingly beautiful and invincible super human being?
He's never wanted anything in the world more than he wants Bella Swan. This perfect, god-like creature with the impenetrable defenses has been lured by the unlikeliest of baits: an average teenage girl, someone most of us can easily identify with.
In New Moon, on page 65, Meyer describes the contrast through Bella's eyes:
"The contrast between the two of us was painful. He looked like a god. I looked very average, even for a human, almost shamefully plain."
What could be more romantic for women across America than to curl up in bed, inclined towards the soft glow of a lamp, being transported into the dreary town of Forks, Washington, seeing life through Bella's eyes, and realizing that Edward Cullen is in love with you? And we're not talking a "Hey, do you want to go catch a movie this weekend?" crush here; we're talking complete and total obsession, an ardent, unmatched devotion, a strong sense of ownership and protection, and an undeniable desire. Add in the equally enamored Jacob Black, werewolf, and his play for Bella's affections and, well --
It's intense.
And fans joke about being obsessed --but a cautious observer knows that the obsession is all too real.
Never mind the supernatural aspects oft he book, like the vampires, werewolves, and other folklore. Let's, perhaps, even forget about the disconnected parents, their withdrawn daughter, or her superficial friends. Let's focus on the fact that in this fictional world, these two characters have given themselves wholly to one another; one is a vampire who's got nothing to lose --the other is a young woman with her whole life ahead of her, whose decided to invest it in a path that leads to damnation (literally) for the love of a beautiful man. The ongoing tension in the series -Edward's desire for Bella to live a normal life, Bella's desire to spend an eternity with her immortal beloved -is hardly a cliffhanger; who doesn't know that Bella will break down Edward's defenses, and that they'll end up together in vampiric paradise? Oh... well, sorry for ruining the ending for you there.
But even though we guessed the ending, we've got to read the next page, just to make sure it all comes to fruition.
One of the "hallmarks" that has been spouted by ardent supporters of Twilight is that it teaches a lesson of abstinence. But, even though Edward and Bella do abstain in the most basic sense of the word, their relationship is filled with hands-on passion: lengthy embraces; breathless kisses; violent declarations of devotion. He sleeps in her bedroom every night. She sits in his lap when she needs comfort. The list goes on. They are obsessed with one another. "Abstinent" they may be --pure they are not. And as Bella and Edward's intimacy increases, despite continued warnings that the relationship is no good for either of them --
We watch with bated breath, crafting an obsession of our own.
As daughters committed to emotional purity, we watch as Bella Swan gives her heart and soul to Edward Cullen, and he gives eternity to her --and we celebrate the exchange.
I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem, that you not stir up or awaken love until it pleases. ~Song of Solomon 8:4
As we watch Bella awaken dangerous desires -as we watch her willing to give herself completely to the one she loves (uttering, again from New Moon, page 69, "I don't care! You can have my soul! I don't want it without you -it's yours!") --we give ourselves to a fantasy that can never fulfill us. We invest ourselves in another person's romance --and the romance isn't even real.
The movies are the icing on the cake. The actors could have been Vogue models (and, perhaps, if their acting careers fizzle after roles that require little else besides being "excruciatingly beautiful" and attractively brooding, we'll see them on the runways). As a Jane Austen fan who thrills to hear that a new adaption is coming out, I can somewhat understand how Twi-hard fans are crowding theaters across America, breaking records and feeding their obsession.
But what happens when it's all over? When Mrs. Meyer has penned the last increment in her whirlwind romance? When the last film has hit the shelves of your local Blockbuster? When you're lying in bed at night without the warm glow of the lamp and the velvety voice of Edward Cullen dancing through your mind as you read the words you long to hear:
"Before you, Bella, my life was like a moonless night. Very dark, but there were stars -points of light and reason... And then you shot across my sky like a meteor. Suddenly everything was on fire; there was brilliancy, there was beauty. When you were gone, when the meteor had fallen over the horizon, everything went black. Nothing had changed, but my eyes were blinded by the light. I couldn't see the stars anymore. And there was no more reason for anything." ~New Moon, Chapter 23, page 514
If Edward describes Bella as his own personal brand of heroine --we may definitely be guilty of sticking Twilight on the whole in that very same category.
While I know that levels of obsession vary among the Twi-hards, and that some people are mature enough to read the books without developing an obsession at all (and please, please, before you flood my comment box with defenses, know that I'm not lumping all Twilight fans in the same obsessive category)--may I offer the first step of Twilight rehab for those of you who are itching for an Edward Cullen fix?
I think the words of Psalm 139 are far more beautiful than any that Stephanie Meyer could ever pen.
Turn to the Lord of the universe, by whom you are perfectly known and loved. He is the ultimate Protector and Defender -he sent his son to die for you (Hebrews 9:12-15). He loves you in spite of your faults, and sees you as something more than simply "average" -he made you (Psalm 139:14-15). He knows you better than you know yourself (Psalm 139:1-4). We are his children -we belong to him. We can place our loyalty and trust in him without fear.
The man we're looking for won't be obsessed with us; he'll be "obsessed" with the Lord. And his love for us will pale in comparison to his love for the Lord and the things of the Lord. If he's the right man, he will be careful with our heart --he will only ask for it when he can give his fully in return, in the beautiful confines of a godly marriage. And our guiding focus won't be a hedonistic passion for one another --but an all-consuming passion for Christ. Our life's focus won't be on each other -though I know we'll love each other dearly -it will be on kingdom work.
Thank you very much, but you can keep Edward Cullen. I'll take a passionate follower of the risen Lord all day every day. And I'll save my heart -from flesh and blood distractions and fairy tale notions -for the one whose soul belongs to the Lord. He won't be "excruciatingly beautiful," "god-like," and "perfect" --but he'll be a living, breathing being who loves me -not Bella Swan.
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Wonderfully written, Jasmine! Let me give you a view from a married woman and mother of five (well, six): First of all, I will state that I have not read the books and here's the reason why.
Several of my married (who are mothers as well) friends, who I attend church with, have picked up the books and spent several days/weeks reading them. They've also encouraged and allowed their not yet or just teenage daughters to read the books and see the movie. I've heard comment after comment first defending the books and then in the next breath saying they wish they were married to Edward Cullen. They go on and on about how wonderful Cullen is and how their husband is nothing like him and "why can't he just be more like Cullen..." On and on and on it goes. I stare in disbelief as I hear my Christian friends commit adultery (a harsh word but after all, isn't lusting, which is desiring something over what you have, adultery?). And it reminds me again, what a blessing my husband is and that I have no desire or need to attempt to fill longings that are already and should be filled by my husband.
I agree wholeheartedly that it is emotional pornography. Women fall prey to that so easily. I've had to guard my heart as well when I've picked up Christian roman novels which can do the same thing as secular romance. I feel like this isn't talked about enough and should be set on the table for women to understand. Thank you for your post.
I'm wondering if I'm the only married woman who feels this way (as it feels so sometimes).
I've enjoyed lurking on your blog for quite sometime and am praying my daughters will grow up to be a young lady just like you!
Great post, Jasmine! With all the Cullen-Flu passing teenage girl to teenage girl, it's so refreshing to read a sensible take on the whole thing!
Blessings,
Kate
Well said, Jasmine. I read the books some time ago when they came out and were making such a fuss in order to see what was going on (rather like I read 'The Shack'--I'm not one to jump on a bandwagon, positive or negative, without investigation). I have been shocked at the way people go on about them. They are not well-written, they are 'twaddle', and they simply have no redemptive value.
I am even more shocked as christian girls the same age as my daughter (who is nearly 14) are going crazy over them. I can't believe mothers are letting them read the books! Aside from the vampires, and the overall DARKNESS of the entire theme, the book is about lust. I'm sorry, I don't mean to be offensive, but that is just the truth. There is NO WAY anyone could pull a positive message of abstinence from this book. Bella doesn't WANT to abstain. Neither does Edward--he just does so to protect her life so he doesn't kill her and drink her blood. The message it is sending is if he were a 'normal human' they would certainly not be abstaining.
Finally, I want to delicately address the appetite I fear these books are developing. Without saying too much, the genre of 'vampire' books in 'adult' literature is nothing short of obscene. I am not kidding, I am not exaggerating, I implore you not to check it out for yourself, and I am sorry I know this for a fact. Why, oh why, dear christian mother, would you initiate this appetite in your daughter?? Our job as mothers is to PROTECT!!! Not bring this trash to our daughters' bedside tables.
Now I'm off to read what the Botkin girls say! :)
Thank you for spending the time to address this subject. Just last night at our dinner table we were discussing a relative's interest in all things Twilight--how she is "in love" with Cullen, etc, etc. She recently asked on fb whether she should see a movie regarding paranormal activity....her concern was only that she would be too scared to sleep at night. I left her with Phil. 4: 8, the "whatsoever" verse as a response. She was offended! This young mother of two is also a pastor's wife! A friend of hers actually commented that someone had left her a comment stating that a Christian should have absolutely nothing to do with the Twilight books or movies. Her response was "LOL". I am saddened, but see further how much the church has gladly opened its doors (and hearts and minds) to the world's deception. Again, thank you for addressing a tough topic.
Elizabeth and yourself did an excellent job tackling this issue that she called "emotional pornography", and this applies to far more than just Twilight. I may not have ever been obsessed over a fairy tale book or movie, but I am as guilty as any for falling prey and drifting into la la land.
Hello Jasmine! I have been following your blog for some time now and I REALLY enjoyed it! Your posts always encourage me. Thank you. :)
Not knowing much about "Twilight" (and NOT wanting to know anymore or watch it!) I can not comment on that. But I wanted to tell you that I tagged you over at my sister's and I fashion blog. http://bramblewoodfashion.blogspot.com/
In Christ,
Gabrielle :)
This series is absolutely ubiquitous, and it is a subtle temptation that many have fallen for. Bella's willingness to damn her soul for love presents the message that, if you've only "fallen in love" with someone, you shouldn't let anything--their desire to kill you, different beliefs, or parent's opinion stand in your way! I agree with and appreciate your evaluation of the series, and it is encouraging to know that I was not the only one sound asleep in my bed when the movie opened last week! Now if you're talking about Emma...
Jasmine, fabulous post, as always. :)
I did read the first book (and watched the first movie) earlier this year at the request of a friend, who really thought they would be up my alley. I love fantasy/romance, so it sounded interesting on the surface. Granted, it's entertaining, but after it was finished I wanted to chuck the book out the window.
Bella is incredibly self-absorbed, annoying, and wishy-washy. Honestly, I found it to be insulting. Granted, some teens are like that, but is this the kind of girl that teen girls should be looking up to? Then there's Edward... he's written as so perfect and wonderful that no other man could ever live up to him. So in this perfect world (Forks, Seattle) we want to be depressed, self-absorbed women waiting for the perfect man to come sweep us away?
No thanks. Give me Anne Shirley (a funny, accomplished, talented young lady) and Gilbert Blythe any day. ;)
The kicker is when I see grown married women going to midnight showings of the movies, reading the books over and over, and completely buying into Twilight-mania. And then constantly complaining about their husbands. It's sad really... they're lusting over a man who doesn't exist while their husbands get ignored and insulted.
I just posted about this over at my blog as well after seeing the Botkin sisters post about it. I have seen girl after girl at my church obcess over it and tell me you should read these books they are so great! I politely reply I don't want to spend my time reading those books. I don't think they are very worthy of my mind obcessing over them! I am shocked to see my friend who is only 12 reading them and I tell her politely that I don't read them and that she should put them down. She won't listen and her mother won't do anything. its so sad!
I am so pleased to see your thoughts and see I am not the only one discusted at this series.
THANK you! It's great to see all these Christian girls agreeing on this point. The whole vampire fad and obession over the Twilight saga has preogressed beyond annoying, and is impressing me as more and more sinful. Needless to say, I too was safely in bed when New Moon came out!
Bravo Jasmine! And everyone out there that hasn't fallen for the Twilight craze.
I have not read the books myself but have several friends at church who have. They don't see a problem with it but now that I know more, I can share why it is wrong with them.
Thank you for this article.
~Miss Hannah K.
Hi Jasmine,
I refuse to read the books or watch the movies, much like I've NEVER seen Titanic and never plan to. I did join in a general discussion on facebook with a friend of mine. One of her feminist friends wrote this in response to the whole Twilight Saga:
"I feel Bella is a slap in the face to feminist ideals. She throws herself off a cliff to feel close to Edward. I am not against romantic novels but I feel the whole hype of this book is based off of selling patriarchal sex ideals to young girls. Bella's human life is boring, she is weak, is concerned about aging at 18. Yeah a lot of girls haven... Read More't had experiences to draw off of to complete the innuendos but I'm concerned about the fantasies they develop based on their vicarious experience. Oh well."
I thought it was interesting to hear from a feminist persepective and I'd be interested to hear what you have to say to her comment. :)
Blessings,
Kateri
Thank you Jasmine. I am the mom of 6. I am an older mom. My oldest is 24 and married... my youngest is 6.
I see this *Twilight* thing taking over christian girls/women. It is mind boggling.
Close friends of ours get really upset when we mention anything whatsoever about it and say things like "well, it teaches good from evil..." "he (cullen) wants what is best for her..."
It fustrates me....
I appreciate the support and scripture.... also there are areas of my own life that I feel the Lord convicting me on... so I again thank you.
blessings,
Teena
I read the Twilight series and enjoyed it, just as I enjoy cotton candy when I go to a carnival.
I must confess Jasmine - when I first opened up your blog post and saw the Twilight banner, I was a little concerned! Fortunately, I worried for nothing. :) You hit the nail on the head as usual. You said everything that I have thought but didn't know how to express. Excellent job!
Wonderfully said!
I love how both you and Elizabeth got to the heart of the "Twilight Issue"; we shouldn't take lightly the effect this fantasy series has on the minds of young and old women today.
And even though I haven't been interested in this series, I still have to guard myself from distractions and daydreams.
May we all continue to keep our focus on Him, who has far more in mind for us than "perfect" men :)
Love you :)
Jasmine,
I had heard a little about this series on a friend's blog, and was queasy about the description. Your post has cleared up why I was feeling that way! :) Thankyou for not being afraid to state the truth about a dangerous, albeit popular, fad. I hope women will take notice and turn to the True Obession--their Lord. I'm encouraged and challenged whenever I visit your blog! Blessings
Kathleen S.
I think that it is just appaling the way people get so obsessed about something so ridiculous. I have never read the books nor seen the movies and haven't ever really cared to read modern fiction, but just knowing that it was about a girl who falls in love with a vampire was enough to quench any curiosity. :-) And your right Jasmine, there is a difference between "Abstinence" and "Purity"!
The Bible says to abstain from even the appearance of evil.(1 Thes. 5:22) And so even the thought of this Twilight Epidemic creeping into the Christian Churches is propostorous. What we would think about guys day-dreaming over girls in romance novels who aren't even close to being realistic. I think that the thing that gets forgotten about by Christian girls is what their future husbands would think about them being a part of this whole Twi-Fad. Oh how careful we need to be! I read the article on this subject last night on Visionary Daughters out loud to my Mom and Sisters and we all shared the same disgust. Wonderfully said Jasmine!
Shelby
Jasmine,
I don't know much about Twilight except from what I have heard in bits and pieces from others or what I have "heard" about it via the Internet and from what I have heard, I am not overly impressed.
However, I have never been attracted to any type of romance novel. I realize that many women like them, but I have never been able to figure out why even to this very day. I'm the same way when it comes to romantic comedies (e.g., "Girl Flicks") where "boy meets girl" and "lives happily ever after," Ugh! These types of stories just don't impress me.
Anyway, thanks for sharing your view points with us. =D
Jasmine,
To be perfectly honest, I dont see why this is such a big deal. I read Twilight and I thoroughly enjoyed it. There's nothing wrong with stories and fiction. The problem lies with the people who cant discern fiction from reality not to writer. It's like blaming the gun for the murder instead of the man holding the gun. I love the Lord with all that I have and I strive everyday to be closer to Him.
Twilight is an enjoyable book...plain and simple. I think that if we read into everything like you did this story, we would all be very frustrated and never want to leave our house. If this is emotional pornography, then you better turn off the Disney channel because most of their stories have a love story involved that dont portray the girl loving the Lord more than the focus of her affection.
That is simply my opinion, take it for what it's worth.
God Bless.
Living in the infamous rainy home state of Bella and Edward, I am exposed to more than my fair share of this whole Twilight saga--we live twenty minutes away from the small town where the first installment was filmed and a few hours away from the real Forks. I couldn't have said anything better, though, Jasmine. And, although I already knew your feelings on the subject, I appreciated this reiteration and extra immunization and ammunition against the disease that is Twilight. =)
Anon.,
Actually, I'm all for turning of Disney channel ;-) --although I don't think it's the root of all evil, it *is* frivolous entertainment, and it does set up less than ideal role models for young women. Further, if you will read the two articles I linked to in this post "Delusions of Grandeur" and "The Perfection Mandate," you'll find that my advice for any young woman reading anything that stirs up unrealistic expectations of romance is to put the book down and open up the Word of God, whether it's Jane Austen or Jeanette Oke. No one is above falling into one emotional trap or another; while I don't care for Twilight, I've had to be careful with Jane Austen.
But, as to this particular book, before I closed the article, I did say, "and please, please, before you flood my comment box with defenses, know that I'm not lumping all Twilight fans in the same obsessive category," having anticipated accusations of overreaction. I myself have had a long conversation with a young woman who saw the books as harmless before she opened them, only to realize after she'd finished the series that she was obsessed with the "high" that it gave her. I've had other conversations with young women who were able to read the book and leave it behind once they've read it. For the record, I've personally observed much more young women to be in the former category than the latter.
Frothy teen romance isn't really my thing (vampires, werewolves, and obsessive emotional entanglement, lesser so), so I don't find that Twilight is something I personally enjoy, or something that I can recommend to other young ladies in keeping with Phillipians 4:8-9. While I have nothing personal against the author of the work, I do wish she had applied herself in writing something that was a little healthier for teenage girls to spend their time on.
However, you're right, the brunt of the blame rests not on Stephanie Meyer, but on those who do not use discernment in what they feed themselves, and how they respond to her work: the brunt of the responsibility rests on us as Christian young ladies to make wise decisions about how we use our spare time. And in keeping with that responsibility, I hope to encourage other young women to do so as well -even if it means putting aside something that we may thoroughly enjoy, but may not be healthy for us. The choice is yours to make, but, as you shared, we're all entitled to our opinions. =)
Blessings to you ~
Jasmine,
Wow. This is the best article on Twilight I've read yet. I am so forwarding this to my die-hard Twilight friends. :)
Seriously, though: Twilight scares me. Even if I were allowed to see it (which I'm not), I don't know that I would. I guess I just can't see the atractiveness in those creepy New Moon posters with the guy on the motorcycle or Edward with his six inch high hair. Seriously? THAT's what teenage girls call cute nowadays? Gone are the days of Mr. Darcy....:(
It's interesting what controversy things like Twilight and Harry Potter cause in the Christian subculture. I have gotten into one too many "creative discussions" with fellow teenage girls to even want to debate it any more. Well, at least for the moment....
-RachelC
I want to second what you said in response to Anonymous, Jasmine. It's not just Twilight that is a problem - any romance book that becomes a stumbling block for you should be put down. I do think it's different for every person. For example, 99% of the girls I know are taken with Jane Austen's portrayals of gentlemen. I am unusual in that I don't care for Jane Austen's heroes. I find them to be somewhat shallow, painfully rich, and rather feminized. I know that lots of girls here will disagree with me. :) I don't hold anything against Austen's books. I don't think they're bad and I know many enjoy them. But Austen's gentlemen are just not my cup of tea. I'm not impressed with Mr. Darcy and don't have problems with spending my nights dreaming about marrying a clone of him. However, there are other books/movies that would be a problem for me personally that I should probably be careful with. I'm sure that some could read Twilight and be able to leave it behind. Perhaps that's so. But I think the larger majority of the population is not exercising such good sense. And, unlike Jane Austen's books, I think that the Twilight series is immoral, evil, dark, and generally not an uplifting thing to dwell on. Again, some will disgree with me on this, I'm sure.
One more comment: romance and chick lit often creates unrealistic expectations about marriage, love, and romance in girls. This creates stress and disappointment for these young ladies when they find out later in life that their new husbands aren't quite like the fictional characters they were used to.
Jasmine, I totally agree with you on this--and I think the ending of your post sums up my emotions! I want a guy who is 1.) passionate about the Lord and then 2.) passionate about me, who has eyes for me alone.
And everyone can take Edward....and Jacob =) Sorry, vampires and warewolfs don't cut it for me.
Twilight Fan,
I hate to disagree with you, but I must agree with others who have said that the Twilight saga is hardly a well-written or novel series. Having been exposed to a wide variety of literature -much of it far better written than Meyer's work -I think I'm entitled to my opinion on the subject. As for the DaVinci code, I'm also familiar with that one --while that's definitely another subject for another time, I don't endorse literature that adds to the Word of God.
To claim that I don't have a well-formed perception of the world I live in is a straw man argument, especially when talking about a fantasy world. One need not be exposed to a glorification of the sin of the world in order to understand that sin, or to form a biblical opinion on it. Although, I've got to say, I'm sure I'm not as sheltered as you think. ;-)
God has given us the life we have to glorify Him, not to satisfy our flesh, and he has given us his Word as our guide for living. In that spirit, we should try to filter everything we read and watch through that lens: is this distracting me from the calling the Lord has placed on my life? Is this feeding appetites that it should not be feeding? Is this something edifying that I can recommend to others? I think, when weighed against these standards, Twilight is found lacking.
At least, if you enjoy the books, I would ask that you be honest about what is lacking. Also, I would ask that, even if the book did not cause you to stumble, you evaluate whether or not it is a massive stumbling block for other women who may be reading it. If so, how is your endorsement edifying to them? Is there something so God-honoring in Twilight that we can't stand to miss out on reading it?
We may, indeed, face some of the same struggles in our lives that literary heroines face --but we don't need them to guide us. We have God's Word for that. If we never read a questionable novel in order to navigate life's ups and downs, I don't believe we will have missed a thing.
My post reflects my opinion on the dangerous aspects of the series. If you disagree with it, I would echo the sentiment in your last sentence: if you have biblical grounds to disagree with what I've shared here, please feel free to share them, as I am open to hearing differing opinions; however, if you simply enjoy the book and don't like my opinion of it, that's certainly your prerogative, and I would ask that you extend a little more kindness to other commenters who disagree with you.
Blessings to you ~
This was wonderful Jasmine! I just read Elizabeth Botkins post also, and as I have seen and heard so much everywhere I look about this series, I was glad to read your posts!
~ Hannah Jean
Great article, Jasmine, and a much needed one at that! The obsession over the Twilight/New Moon saga is a disturbing one (as was the obsession over Harry Potter), especially seeing as how it has crept into the churches (another case of the church looking just like the world).
I really appreciate you calling attention to this issue. How desperately we need to reach out to young women and encourage them to seek out much better role models than those in the Twilight gang. How sad to be so obsessed over such flawed examples. And to not even flinch when Bella exclaims that she'd happily sell her soul to Edward. It's all just really sad. How we need to reclaim the media these days, and provide an example of radiant emotional purity. Just because Bella and Edward are abstinate in some senses, we all need to realize that if we're not emotionally abstinate, if you will, then it will likely lead to us not being abstinate in any sense of the word.
I, too, want to marry a man who loves the Lord more than he does me. Only then will his love be as wonderful as possible. If my husband was obsessed with me as Edward is with Bella, it would be unhealthy and not truly pure or satisfying.
Great points, Jasmine! Thank you. :)
Bekah
I did not see Twilight Fan's comment. Am I missing something?
The comment from the feminist that Kateri shared was so sad. The Twilight story is FAR from patriarchy, that's for sure!
Anonymous and one or two others said something to the effect that if these books are a hindrance to you, then don't read them, but otherwise they're ok. However, I have to disagree. The standard is God's Word, not necessarily our own struggles or lack thereof. Twilight, New Moon, etc. simply do not stand up under the scrutiny of God's Word and His holy standard. There's nothing Biblical about the twilight books. I know others will disagree with me, but I have to express what I see to be Biblical truth whether it's popular or not.
God bless you, Jasmine.
Rebekah,
Thanks for pointing that out; I think I accidentally deleted Twilight Fan's comment; here it is:
"I think you are all making such a huge deal out of nothing. These books are wonderfully written, although some comments would previously claim they are not. I read all four of them, and my kids and I were the first one's in line to see the second movie Friday night. They are nothing more than whimsical fantasy. You make it out like it is written word. I have also read and LOVED the Divinci Code. It sparked my interest! I have been a christian since I was in second grade, I am a mother of two children, a full time employee, and a college student and it angers me that so many people are so blind to real life. You should experience all their is to experience! God gave us the life he gave to to live. Your families will be faced with things like this all the time, it is no different than the people out there complaining that we are giving praise to the Lord at Christmas. If you don't believe in it or like don't participate but don't complain or put down those who do."
THANK YOU!!! I've been needing another point of view on the books. I'm heading over right now the read what the Botkins had to say.
My BF loves the books and movie, and since I haven't seen or read the books, (and don't plan to) don't really have an opinion on them other than the fact the I don't care much for vampires.
I do have one question though. Have you read the books. And if you have, are they really as -for lack of a better word- mushy, as they sound.
Hey, Joel here. Jasmine, i just wanted to say that i'm glad to hear your perspective. I agree with some of what your saying, but what I really don't agree with is some of the thoughts expressed in the comments. Don't get me wrong, i think we all need to follow our conscience on this issue. That said, some things are a bit extreme. for example:
“I have been shocked at the way people go on about them. They are not well-written, they are 'twaddle', and they simply have no redemptive value.”
I, however, can see many positive things, for example:
I see gentlemanly traits in these books, displayed primarily by Edward. I also see a strong familial loyalty in the Cullens interactions. Many Females who I have talked to have had this reaction to Edward, ‘wow, he’s great, but I think he makes girls have unrealistic expectations for a guy. I mean, no one would really treat me like that.’ To this I respond by telling them if all they are aiming for is Edward Cullens, they have set their sights to low. They should expect a man who will treat them better than Edward. In the kind of longing that this male character stirs up in some women; women who have, for the most part, bought into the lie that they are to be objectified, must become what a hyper-sexualized culture considers beautiful, and act in a seductive and flirtatious way if the desire to attract a husband; I find great redemption and good. If such women as our feminist-sexualized has produced can somehow realize that it is not unreasonable to expect a gentleman, a man who will put her own welfare above his own, a man (dare I say it?) even better than Edward, than this series has much to be commended. I must also say that these books pack a powerful pro-life message in the final book.
I find it a bit misleading also when people say it was poorly written. In all of my reading, I would like to think I've picked up a little bit of knowledge on what is well-written and what is not. The twilight series in not poorly written. I admit, Mark twain Meyer's is not, but she still writes a decent book. Thats one of my bigger pet-peeves actually. You dont have to like twilight, but one must at least restrain from calling it what it is not, that is poorly written. I actually had much more to say, but i dont think it worked when I tried to comment earlier. Thank you for keeping this blog. I cant wait to see what you write next.
Hey, Joel,
It's so good to hear from you, and always a pleasure to see a young man's perspective. You brought up a lot of good points, and while I won't address each one of them, I did want to remark on two in particular:
First off, the quality of the writing of Twilight. I've only read the first book in the series, so my comments are completely focused on that one: while I wouldn't call the novel badly written, I didn't think Meyer's writing style was as exceptional as some have made it out to be. Writing is something that is wholly subjective; for instance, a young woman in this comment section mentioned that she didn't care for Jane Austen's work; Twain himself said of Jane Austen's work "Jane Austen? Why I go so far as to say that any library is a good library that does not contain a volume by Jane Austen. Even if it contains no other book." I, on the other hand, think she is one of the best female authors who ever picked up a pen. =)
While I do know that some comments regarding Meyer's writing do, indeed, come from a distaste for the subject matter of her books, and not their overall written value, I'm one who did find her writing style over-dramatic, insipid, and cliched (although I did appreciate her ability to make Bella such a relatable character, and she definitely got across the point about Edward's overwhelming perfection). That is my personal opinion, though, and, again, given the subjective nature of writing, I don't think it's an important point to argue.
You made another point about Edward Cullen's admirable qualities. Actually, I was having a conversation on another forum about this, and wanted to re-post my thoughts here (in the next comment =)
"Edward Cullen [does] ha[ve] a lot of admirable qualities that I think Christian women dealing with weak men are naturally drawn to; aside from the superficial aspect of his good looks (and the fact that he can recite Shakespeare =) he's well-groomed and genteel, he's strong and passionate, and he desperately loves and desires to protect the object of his affection. His main difficulty (aside from being a vampire, of course =P) is a lack of self control. Which may sound strange, considering the fact that he keeps the bloodthirst to a minimum. ;-)
He loves a young woman he doesn't think he should be with. He steals her heart anyway. He's not willing to commit fully to her. He takes up all of her time nonetheless. He knows he isn't good for her. He tells (and shows) her how he feels anyway. Underneath the fantasy lies a typical problem: a young couple without the scriptural boundaries of accountability, purposefulness, and purity. If Edward was a real gentleman, he'd be a lot more careful with Bella's heart. Of course, if Edward wasn't a doomed immortal, there'd be hope of his learning those Christian principled somewhere down the line. ;-)
Christian men needn't fret, though. This, too, shall pass. And when the dust clears, the qualities we're so drawn to in the Edward Cullens of literature will pale in comparison to the most important quality we should seek in a mate: a heart focused on Christ. The bells and whistles of sparkling skin and amber eyes are way out of our reach. The ardent devotion would be nice, though. ;-) And any attributes Edward boasts needn't be found in soap opera-esque literature, but in God's Word, and in real life examples of biblical manhood."
In conclusion, Joel, my main focus in this article was the romance between Edward and Bella, which is completely inappropriate, no matter how you spin it. Despite the fact that their may be redeeming qualities later in the series, I still think it prudent to caution young women against a piece of literature where chewing the meat and spitting out the bones might be more trouble than it's worth. Twilight reminds me of a soap opera ~the same way I don't sit in front of the TV every week and watch the drama unfold, picking out the good and leaving behind the bad, I wonder if it's wise to waste our time doing the same with a piece of literature.
There are other places where we can learn about family loyalty, exemplary manhood, and receive a pro-life message. While these are all commendable aspects of the series, they are all but hidden beneath the more questionable themes. While I don't think Stephanie Meyer needs to be burned at the stake (goodness, no!), I do think we need to handle this literature with care, and question whether or not it's even worth handling at all.
I have read and seen Twilight, and I came away unimpressed. Because even in the midst of what may be some acceptable themes, the guiding focus of the novels is a tempestuous love affair between two young people (well, one young person and one immortal) that -for many young women - awakens desires and appetites that weren't meant to be met on the big screen or in a romance novel. I'm not seeking to condemn anyone who has read and enjoyed the series, only, perhaps, to offer a different perspective regarding some of the concerns I had about the series, to raise some questions that I think need to be asked before we read anything, and to address a serious problem I've seen with some of the more die-hard Twilight devotees.
Okay, I think I've rambled on enough. Thanks for the comment again, Joel --I hope mine didn't come off as argumentative. I was simply trying to better explain my position in all of this. =) I really appreciate your taking the time to share your thoughts, and hope you'll feel free to do so again in the future. As I said, you brought up some really great points for consideration.
Please tell your family I said hello! Also, I hear congratulations are in order for a certain sisters of yours? =) Please give Rachel and Ricky our very best wishes! =D
Joel, to let you know where I am coming from, I think this series is a fad. These books will never be classics; they won't stand the test of time. As far as the writing quality, a 'well-written' work (in order to earn such a designation) consists of a higher level of sentence structure, vocabulary, thought-stimulation and literary technique than Meyer demonstrates. Am I saying it is horrible writing that should never have been published? No. She uses adequate characterization, description, and plot development (although it is highly predictable). I didn't say it was horrible--I said it wasn't well-written. It's a matter of standards of excellence.
I educate my children at home, so these books brought Charlotte Mason's term 'twaddle' to my mind. In addition to this term referring to writing that is 'dumbed down' (simple sentence structure, vocabulary, etc), twaddle has the connotation of something that is idle, insignificant, trivial. . .junk food for the mind. From my reading of the series, this classification is appropriate. There are just so many better things young people could be pouring into their minds and doing with their time.
I agree, Joel, with what you are saying, however, regarding women "settling" for being objectified. The bar must be raised--both in women's expectations of how men treat them, and in the quality and subject matter of material with which we fill our minds. I would hope women would look to the way Jesus loved the church and gave Himself for it rather than lowering the standard to Edward's selfish desires toward Bella.
I found your reference to the 'pro life message' in later books interesting. Thank you for bringing that up. It's been awhile since I read them. I AM glad the author didn't kill the baby, even though it could have killed Bella to carry it full term. And I'm sorry to disagree, but my opinion is that it still isn't worth it to wade clear through all the other garbage to mine that one nugget of morality--especially for the young, impressionable girls of my acquaintance who are so enamored with the series. I see what Jasmine is doing here as an opportunity for potential readers to use discernment in choosing reading material, and I heartily applaud her efforts in opening this dialogue.
We can learn from the experiences and mistakes of others (and I've made many mistakes in my reading choices over my life, which I would love for others to learn from and avoid).
haha I know exactly how it is to be obsessed with Edward Cullen....I used to be a huuuge fan! ....Im not as much anymore...but if a girl can read the books or watch the movies without becoming obsessed with the characters....they are really interesting! and really....I don't think it's just Twilight...it happens with alot of other movies/books....
Well, I have only read your blog because Stacy M. had it up on her Facebook page, and so I am not a follower of this blog, but I did want to say something.
Although expressing an opinion is an American right which the internet makes easier, others then have the 'right' to express their opposite views (sometimes without actually reading the original thought).
So, to those out there who believe that this whole Twilight thing isn't such a big deal--I will share my own view and try my best to make it clear.
Twilight is simply trash. So was Harry Potter. Now of course people can read these novels and still be Christians--but let's look at it another way. Here, you finish the sentence: the Bible is to organic cheese as Twilight is to ____________ (let me fill it in for you--"processed cheese food").
That's right, it's junk food. People can eat junk food and be alright, right? I mean, all those fillers, empty calories, chemicals, additives, preservatives, and artificial flavorings and colorings aren't doing you any harm, right?
Well, perhaps in tiny doses maybe not, but in the long run, constant ingestion of 'fake food' will leave your body nutritionally deficient and sick. You can't stay physically healthy off of processed food that's been stripped of its nutrients just like you can't stay spiritually healthy on series of junk that passes for literature in this country.
So, if you read it and enjoyed it, great. If you read it and said, "This is junk--I'm never filling my head with this trash again!" then that's great too. However, if you look at the big picture--that you don't belong to yourself and Christ paid a price for you and He wants you to focus on what is good, pure and holy--then Twilight, the 11 o'clock news, and all those primetime shows people get caught up in are OUT OF THE PICTURE. They are ultimately DETRIMENTAL to you, your walk with Christ, and the name you give Christianity.
And please, for the sake of love, DON'T GIVE THESE BOOKS TO YOUR CHILDREN!!! Remember--if you train them up the WAY THEY SHOULD GO, then when they are old they won't stray from it. Put thoughts of falling in love with a vampire in their heads and your daughter might be bringing Jonathon "The Impaler" Sharkey home for dinner. Yes, there really are people out there who think they are vampires--and they have covens, and they bite each other, and it's sick and twisted.
Those are my thoughts on the subject. It's kind of 'at your own risk' whenever you pick up literature--even 'Christian' literature--that isn't the Word of God. Use your head, your horse sense, and some self control and you should be able to devise if a book series is really in accordance to what the Father would want you sticking your nose into.
It is sad that this even needs to be discussed. Thank you, Jasmine, for so eloquently expressing the truth of God's Word, and opening up this discussion.
"Guard your heart." How much more plain can the LORD be about this?
There are certain things that a born-again believer should KNOW are harmful to their spritual life, and there is no doubt that this series of books falls into that category.
Jasmine, I appreciate your stand against the Twilight foolishness. However, while I appreciate your intentions, I question whether it was necessary to review the book, given that in order to review the book, you had to read it.
My thought process was as follows: the book celebrates darkness and vampires, therefore is not fit reading material according to Phil 4:8. End of thought process. :)
I haven't commented here before, but I and my younger siblings read your blog often. Hi from the south side of Houston. :)
I linked to your article, as well as to the Botkin's on my blog. Both are simply wonderful and very thought-provoking. Keep up the good work! :)
Thanks for posting Twilight Fan's comment; I thought I was just overlooking it!
One thing I would say in response to it is that Satan is so, so clever and wants to destroy us in the most subtle of ways. One of those, I think, is to take dangerous influences, actions, etc. and put them into the venue of fantasy. That way, we won't think it's quite so bad, since it's all make believe. However, I think this could be a dangerous mistake. Mr. Phillips wrote a great article on this topic, dealing with Harry Potter, and made the point that if there is something God detests in real life, then it's not acceptable in fantasy, either. And I would even say that it could be more dangerous in fantasy, for so many think fantasy and make believe is ok and innocent, thereby making it so much easier for people to fall prey to the evil portrayed.
I would also disagree that the Lord wants us to experience all there is to experience. This is simply not true, Scripturally speaking. He does not want us to experience sin, for example.
I don't want to come across as disrespectful to this woman, as she is my elder, for one thing. I just wanted to address what I saw to be some dangerous ideas. I hope you don't mind, and that my heart and intention in this is clear. :)
I also think the Davinci Code shouldn't be liked by Christians, as it mocks Christianity, but that's a different subject for a different day perhaps! :)
Have a blessed day in the Lord!
Rebekah
whoa... i read Visionary Daughter's post too and thought it was great... just 'seeing' the trailer when we went to see Prince Caspian was enough for me! The movie looked way too creepy... I felt really bad afterwards... and I KNEW I'd never want to see it... ever... if it's okay, I'm printing this off... I write fantasy, but I want it to be glorifying to the Lord... not a rehash of Twilight or Harry Potter...
Is it okay that I printed it off to use for 'outlines' for myself? I had also printed of the Boktin's sister's article, and I have printed off Doug Philip's article on Harrypotter/Fantasy too...
Thanks! I enjoy your blog! =) Well, you get that all the time, but thanks for really being yourself, and not a 'made up perfect' person... : )
Hi, Sharon!
Thank you for commenting! Although I can see your point, and would not encourage everyone to read Twilight just for the purpose of refuting it, I feel the need to point out that, as my dad's research assistant, the nature of my job is to read things that I don't agree with, or wouldn't necessarily recommend that everyone read (from literature regarding the homosexual agenda to "The Shack"). I'm very used to reading source documents when writing reviews or doing research, and so it came very naturally to me in this instance.
Because Twilight is so pervasive in Christian circles, and because someone very dear to me was struggling with a Twilight obsession not too long ago, I wanted to lend credibility to my review by actually having done some in-depth research on the topic. I reviewed it because it is so pervasive, and because I hoped that my review would 1) offer a different perspective to those who have struggled with the Twilight obsession, and 2) provide those helping others through their "obsession" with some firsthand information about the series.
I loved this bit of your comment:
"My thought process was as follows: the book celebrates darkness and vampires, therefore is not fit reading material according to Phil 4:8. End of thought process. :)"
While I personally believe your thought process is very sound indeed, for some people, it's simply not that simple. I thought others might benefit from getting a more in-depth look at the series, and hoped to provide it with this review.
I hope that clears things up a bit! Thanks again for taking the time to comment.
Blessings to you ~
Thank you, Michelle, for your kind words. Please feel free to print of anything you find encouraging. ;-)
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Can I just say "A Hearty Amen" Jasmine?
Mrs. Denner
Well done~ Jasmine! :)
Thank you for speaking the
truth and encouraging us to
'fix our eyes on Jesus'
Love in Him~ Jen
Oh. My. Goodness.
Jasmine, that was AMAZING!!!
I've written many posts about Twilight and my views on it, and you hit every one perfectly!!
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!
Hello Jasmine,
I don't really know much of "Twilight", but I am thankful that I do not! Thank you for posting about the Botkin Sisters post--it was outstanding! I still need to read yours... But - I was wondering what you thought about Jane Austen’s books. I’ve never really read her books and I’ve never seen any movies based on her books, but many of my friends have. What’s your view on Austen’s books? Are they good wholesome books worth taking the time to read?
Thank you,
~Shiloh
Jasmine,
Thank you for this post. We have been a Twiligh-free home from the beginning. First of all my daughters are young 10 and fourteen and I am very careful about what they see. My oldest has seen Emma, Sense and Sensibility and Pride and Prejudice but we are careful to discuss every every detail to make sure we do not get carried away with flights of fancy and a wrong image of men, courtship and marriage.
As for Twilight I am very concerned with Christians believing it is okay to have anything to do with the occult. The Word is clear here, we are to stay away from it. It is for this reason that we do not celebrate Halloween. Vampire's, werewolf's and witches really have no place in the life of a Christian. I think we can find better more God honoring ways to amuse ourselves.
I will be glad when all of the fuss surrounding these books dies down. Great post Jasmine! I am sure it was encouraging to many teen-age girls. I know it was to my daughter she was the one who told me about this post.
Jasmine,
That was well written. Thank you for informing the truth about Edward and Bella's romance. I never saw the movies, nor read the books. In fact, I didn't really have a stand on the film until I did my own research, too. Now, I can say that I wont be missing out much on the Twilight crave.
I wrote an article for a local website about New Moon. My perspective was placed on Bella's strong-will and disobedience in the film, not in the book (According to readers, the book didn't enphasize much on a rebellious Bella). But still this was a matter that, as mentioned in scriptures, leads to or is a form of idolatry. Man, did I get lots of hate comments when I posted it on Facebook. Lol.
Thank you so much again for your post. It really encouraged me to be the godly man that I need to be so that one day I can serve my godly wife for the glory of our risen Lord. :)
Mauricio Belgrano
Jasmine,
Hello.
I (know you've hear this before) found out about your blog through -- you guessed it -- your dad. My family has been so encouraged by his "nonconformist stance" and you have been a great encouragement also.
I know very little about the Twilight saga. Its been a gradual crescendo from hearing about Twilight via a few friends, to, having the series stare at me every time I enter my local Barnes & Noble.
As I’ve already said, I knew nothing about the books, and yet I had a strange sense of caution. There was a vibe I was getting in regards to Twilight.
You see, I never read a page of Harry Potter. I found out its subject and decided that witchcraft (sorry if it sounds harsh) was not a subject I wanted to read thousands of pages about.
Oddly, there is this same sort of obsession with the Twilight series. That kind of wide-spread addiction always puts me on my guard.
My suspicions about how edifying or appropriate the books were was confirmed. I know someone who has (I can almost say) NEVER read a whole book in their life. Yet, they were so completely obsessed with the novel that they finished the series in about a week. Now, I don't know about you, but anyone who HATES reading that much, but CANNOT put Twilight down worried me, to say the least.
You nailed it! I thank you for taking the time to address these books that have been a deadly epidemic that has (unfortunately)been accepted by the church. Thank you for clearing up any of my doubts about Twilight.
Take care.
First off, I would be rather shocked if you and the majority of your readers approved of the Twilight books. I agree with many of your points, but I also think there is nothing wrong with reading Twilight if one doesn't take it seriously. The Botkins calling it porn was rather harsh. It is a book and while some may have an unhealthy obsession with it, for most it is just fun, light reading.
I read lots of books, some good literature or good Christian living books and some that are just fun. And Twilight is just that. Although I'm not sure if you're the type of person who disapproves of fantasy in general (I've met some Christians who feel that CS Lewis' Narnia series--which is great literature IMHO--is wrong).
I'm not saying that you or any of your readers should read the Twilight series if you don't want to or feel it would morally corrupt you. But just cut the rest of us some slack.
-an occasional reader
Great post, Jasmine! I have no interest in this series, but your post has made me aware of the disturbing fact that this series is "big" in Christian circles. Wow, that's really disturbing. It reminds me of the hoopla surrounding the movie, Titanic a few years ago. Christian women raved over the movie, hands clasped to hearts as the swooned over, "What he did for her!"(Can't remember the main character's names, sorry!) I was just aghast, because the story involved so much lust, impropriety, and fornication. Now I hear that this same attitude is cropping up over the Twilight series. This gives me much to pray about. The enemy is having a field day distracting Christian women.
Thanks for informing us about this!
You hit the nail on the head! Thank you for this post!
Hi, Jasmine. I have read all four of the Twilight books, and while my reasoning for disliking them is somewhat different from yours, I agree that these are not good books to give to adolescent females. (I don't believe in banning books, but if I had a daughter who read them, we would have to discuss them at great length.) I found the character of Edward to be extremely disturbing. This, for me, was not so much because he was a vampire. Instead, I found many of his actions to be inappropriate.
Edward was never physically violent towards Bella, but I found his behavior to be extremely controlling and it raised several red flags for me that indicated he had the potential to become an abuser, especially if he was a real life person and not a book character. (I grew up in a house with domestic violence and so I am sensitive to these issues.) Things like sabotaging Bella’s vehicle to limit her mobility or having Alice (his sort of sister, for you non-Twilight readers) keep tabs on Bella while he was away disturbed me. Furthermore, sneaking into Bella’s room to watch her sleep (without her even knowing he was present) is extremely disturbing. The legal system would classify that as stalking. (They’d probably throw in breaking and entering as well.) The justification for these behaviors is that Edward loves Bella. I didn’t see that as love – I saw it as obsession and dangerous obsession at that. It’s not romantic – it’s disturbing. Bella needs a restraining order and Edward needs counseling at the least.
Hello Jasmine,
I know you might find this hard to believe, but I hadn't heard of this book or film. I live in a very remote part of Scotland and don't keep up with movies or books much.
This was a wonderful post though, and I heartily agree with your sentiments.
Love in Him,
Tina
Wonderful post! I agree with you 100%. Twilight has saturated the minds of so many girls and women... and none of them seem to realize these books aren't as harmless as they claim. One of my good friends, who is also a pastor's daughter, has the entire series on her shelf... I've also had to discuss the "Twilight" issue with young girls at my Bible Study. So many people need to be awakened to the seriousness of this matter.
Thanks for writing about this... it really needs to be said!
Your Sister in Christ,
WarriorMaiden
The Twilight movies remind me of an older movie called "Endless Love" with Brooke Shields. It dealt with the same kind of obsessive love/lust for another person. It's not something to desire girls. Thank you Jasmine for your post.
When I first heard about Twilight, I was rather stunned. Falling in love with a vampire??
Think about it folks, for just a split second. He's a VAMPIRE.
My mom read a review by a Christian lady the other day, who, my mom told me with great disgust, was attributing fruits of the Spirit (that would be the Holy Spirit) to Edward.
We're talking about a vampire here. How can vampires (even fantasy ones) be thought of as in any way "good"? Maybe I am just sheltered (thank you Dad and Mom), but I've always thought of vampires as inerrantly Evil. GOD is good.
Just looked up "vampire" on Wikipedia, and here's the first line:
"Mythological or folkloric beings who subsist by feeding on the life essence (generally in the form of blood) of living creatures regardless of them being undead or a living person."
Who is the Giver of Life? The Creator of Life?
Would not something that is feeding on other creatures' life-blood be destroying life... therefore be opposite of God, and therefore be opposing God?
The Bible says whoever is not for God is against God. I'm thinking vampires would be falling into that category.
I have been extremely disturbed lately by an increase in ads (or maybe just an increase in my seeing them) for psychic readings.
The world's obsession with darkness and evil is no accident. The Lord's return is drawing near, Satan is working overtime, and we as Christians need to be working overtime as well.
That should leave little time for dreaming about Edward the Vampire.
My daughter Amelia and I watched the first movie in this series together and I was, quite frankly, repulsed. Even if one disregards the whole vampire aspect, the story itself is odd and disturbing. What I find very interesting though is what this says about the young girls of today. In todays feminist society, it is surprising to me that so many girls are captivated by this character and her story. She is allowed to be free and independent (by her parents) but instead of reveling in her independence, she gives herself over to a very strong male character. He cherishes her (kinda), he protects her and sacrifices himself for her. Hmmm... it seems the antithesis of the egalitarian-type relationship that is lauded by feminists.
So I suppose, for all that is sad and disturbing about the Twilight phenomenon, we can find a shred of encouragement. The very fact that young girls are so drawn to this story, reminds us of the roles that God has created for men and women. In fact the books' very popularity confirms that God has created us separate and different from each other- that women desire to be cherished and protected not to be "equal and independent." It is bred into us by our Creator. Our "desire shall be for our husbands and they shall have the rule over us"... or something like that;)
Thank you for what you've written! I echo your thoughts.
I work with 5 women who are obsessed with the Twilight/New Moon books and movies. They have tried to give me the books to borrow and read. At first I resisted because I detest books that are completely fictional with no believable qualities. Then I looked up the books to get an idea of what they were to see if I would be interested. I decided, from reading reviews, that they were not books that I needed to spend time reading when there are much better things to read.
Persuaded,
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, ma'am --they've got the gears in my brain turning --those are some very astute and thought-provoking observations. =)
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I was looking back over your different blog posts (since I hadn't visited in a while)and couldn't help but read this post. I had only ever seen posters at our local library and don't have any friends who read the book so it was interesting learning a little bit more about the book.
I really appreciated what you said about emotional pornography. I am a person who can fantasize and dream alot easier than my other friends. And after reading your post it reminded me why I don't read romance books.
Thanks for all your hard work, I will defiantly be checking your blog more often from now on!!!
Thanks for this post! I linked to it on my blog. :)
I never liked Edward. He needs to get a backbone. Jacob on the other hand..... jk.
Good post, by the way =D
This was great! I know nothing about this other than what you have briefly laid out here...but I appreciate your thoughts and perspective. ;0)
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